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 Have you ever noticed that people don’t like accountability? 

 It starts off in Genesis with Adam and Eve shifting blame for their failure to trust and obey God. It continues with Cain trying to avoid God’s calling to account for his murderous actions by his rely, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”

 In the context of the kings of Israel and the people in general, they really didn’t like the prophets who called them to account for their foolish and evil actions. Further still, it seems that this aversion is not limited to the religious realm. Both dictators throughout history and power brokers of communist regimes (who are philosophical atheists) do not want to answer to anyone for their actions.

Bringing it home and making it personal, in the exercise of our individual freedoms, we don’t want anyone telling us what to do. At the same time we cry out for justice regarding crime and punishment. Just look at the news and you see the desire for OTHERS to be held accountable for their actions and yet we resist accountability ourselves (intellectually, sexually, financially, behaviorally, and spiritually).

 Why is there such a double standard in our application of accountability?

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northton read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 11:41 PM

I have no idea what you mean. It's all Frank's fault!

I have often pondered the question of free will. After all, can you say no to a delicious and tasty Krispy Kreme Original Glazed Donut? I thought not!

Back on track... avoiding punishment is definately human nature!

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 9:55 AM

Great Post Didaskalo's...and oh so true...but I will say this.....one of my biggest faults HAVE BEEN honesty......I say fault because in being truthful I may have severed a relationship; a job opportunity....BUT TODAY...NOW......I AM GLAD....and Proud to say...Thank you to God for keeping me real...NO SKELETONS here......and when you see people like you stated in your post and I've known many that have failed to take accountability but are quick to judge others...lets just say...their lives have been NO PINIC and it catches up with you sooner than later.....HAVE A GREAT DAY.

DeborahLakeHelen read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 12:12 PM

You're right, absolutely right! However, whenever someone makes the snide remark, "Well if Eve hadn't..." I cut them off, and say, "Let me remind you, that the BIBLE refers to THE SNAKE as a HE!" LOL!
Seriously though, everyone is accountable for their own actions!

sipedo read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 12:59 PM

Great post.

Deb, you are right, but the Bible also sez that Adam was there WITH HER.

At a meeting at church last night, we were talking about accountability. There are two types that we discussed. 1. Accountibility to a person or a board. People holding you accountible to their own standards however correct or twisted they may be. 2. Accountibility to set parameters and goals.

We concluded that the second was more important.

In Congress, we have ethic committees, and those in Congress are supposed to maintain accountibility to those parameters. I say "supposed" to, but how does the committee hold members accountible, when they themselves don't measure up to the standard. As a result, they do nothing to those who violate ethics becasue they themselves are guilty of the same thing.

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 15, 2008 | 3:43 PM

What do y'all think it means to be your brother's keeper? How does that work out for you in practical terms? What were your reactions the last time someone held you accountable for your words and/or actions?

DeborahLakeHelen read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 7:52 PM

Sip, I'll bet that was a heated discussion!
You know the Bible says we are to follow those who are "our leaders, unless we know what they are doing is wrong. And THAT means just what you said:..."they themselves are guilty of the same thing."
dida, You know it, Brother! To a certain extent! Jesus doesn't expect us to follow a bunch like the "Manson Clan," and "wash the feet" of those who are committing heinous acts. But if I see a child or an elderly person on the street who looks like they need my help, even if I'm putting myself in danger, there's just something inside of me that is going to MAKE me stop and get involved. I've been that way since I was a kid. When I get "called out on the carpet," if I'm wrong, It's not beneath me to apologize. But, I'm NOT a doormat, either. I'll be the first to admit, I'm the filthiest of sinners, but what I've asked forgiveness for, from Jesus has been slung "away as far as the East is from the West." Praise God for forgiveness!

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 15, 2008 | 9:21 PM

Deb, that is one of the challenges of accountability ... it requires personal humility. The blessing of forgiveness is a strong motivator for me to try and put aside my propensity for pride and allow other trusted individuals to call me to account when needed. I agree, we should never be doormats.

TAllen read my blog view my photos
Oct 16, 2008 | 11:20 AM

Wow Dida this is a good one!

I find most don't like accountability because it requires them to actually be honest in word and deed with themselves more than other most times.

In life I am no more right than I am wrong but I am always honest. That honesty had gotten me bash, harrassed, insulted, attacked and critized but it has never changed my belief that it is important. I don't always make good choices or right decisions and when that happens I expect others to call them into question because it gives me the opportunity to rethink, reevaluate and reanalyize them so that I don't repeat mistakes (hopefully) and that allows me to grow as a person. We are all "our brothers keepers" in the respect that we need to remember that no decision is ever one that only effect us. I am not a perfect person and do not expect other to be either. When I am wrong I hold myself accountable and face the results, but I always question if the "wrong" is more important than the opportunity to make it right and in most cases its not.

Gorilla read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 2:55 PM

Holding oneself accountable is far different then others holding one accountable for one's said actions.
Personal and public accountability.
D you enter the realm of trust for others to call you out, there is a lot of grey area, for I trust no one but myself. How does one differentiate?
My culture envokes a strong pakikisama.
Pakikisama requires someone yielding to group opinion, pressuring him to do what he can for the advancement of his group, sacrificing individual welfare for the general welfare. Consensus takes precedent over individual needs or opinion....very different from western thinking of MAKING opinion known, be it right or wrong....
Does it make me less of a person to fold my opinion? In essence my public accountability?

Georgia-Man read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 5:18 PM

I feel that no matter how big or bad or important a person may be or think they are, they should be held accountable to someone. After all, thats what keep us honest. Lack of accountability and greed are two of the main things wrong with this world that we live in today.
There is someone in my life that is now being held accountable for something she did over seventeen years ago and she is still trying to lie her way out of it. If she had taken responsabilty for her actions back then,it would not be sooooooo painful now. We must take our life here on earth very seriously and stand up for what is right, no matter who's
"Brother" it may be.

Gorilla read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 7:50 PM

Who will keep the top dog honest?
Its an issue of personal character and integrity.
A question of ethics.
We as a society have resolved to lying on a daily basis, white lies to adultery....
I choose not to, ever, but I also choose not to snitch, ever.
Chitty people make Chitty decisions. Who is accountable for someone being a chitty person?
Society.

AthenaZeusVito read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 11:29 AM

Accountability is something that I feel is essential to the Christian walk. One cannot fully keep himself accountable, as our sin and hearts deceive us. We are blind to our sin without the help of the Holy Spirit and wise counsel. 2 verses that come to mind are Proverbs 19:20 and 27:17 (ESV)...

"Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise."

"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."

And we are called to be our brothers' (and sisters') keepers. If we love our brothers and sisters, we will want to see them mortify their sin and glory in The Lord.

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 2:03 PM

TA - thanks ... I also appreciate you thought and transparency in your response. I find that I grow on two extremes when held accountable ... strenght and humility. Strength because I am forced to deal with my inconsistencies and failures thus making me stronger. Humility, because I learn that I am in process and still have a ways to go AND that I'm NOT as strong as I thought I was.

GM - Brother, I am sorry for your pain. Your personal and practical example really supports the importance of accountability as it impacts not only oneself but others too.

AZV - Amen!

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 2:17 PM

Gorilla - I don't trust myself and that is why I seek the help of others that I trust to help me. The Bible teaches that the heart is desperately wicked and thus I ask others to look at my life from an outside perspective to see if my words, actions, and the projection of my attitudes are consistent with the Bible, which is the basis for my beliefs and practices. This external help from friends does not remove my primary responsiblity to master myself (through the indwelling power of God's Holy Spirit - sorry for the religios lingo for those who are not Christ-followers).

G - you touch on a good point is distinguishing the different realms and spheres of influence in which accountability can occur. Public and private, and I would also add ... politically, spiritually, business ethics, educational ethics, as well as the social cultural elements you mentioned. Indeed, it is true that accountability plays itself out in differnt ways in different cultures. Story to contine ...

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 2:26 PM

When I lived in Africa, one day while driving slowly though a town in the interior of Ivory Coast, a boy about 6-8 years old ran into the street right in front of my car without look or even slowing down. I slamed on the brakes to avoid running him over ... he didn't slow down. I jump out of my car and yell to the people on the side of the road to help that kid from getting kill in the future (code for spank his behind). The first adult that was able to reach that boy grabbed him and spanked him there on the street and gave him a stern lecture about running in front of traffic. Too funny!

Another time, when I was parked and going to the market, I came out to find a 18 month old playing in the gutter in front of my car. I took the kid and started asking others where the mother was. I eventually entered a nearby house when the child lived to find out that the mother was gone and had left the child with a 13 year old niece (baby sitter). I then lectured the girl about her serious failure to care for the baby.

The were two examples of culturally appropriate accountability that I probably couldn't do here in the states. :-)

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 2:29 PM

Personally, I think that "top dogs" or leaders should be held to an even higher level of accountability. That is wny there are laws in the first place, but leaders shouldn't PLAY the GRAY areas.

sipedo read my blog view my photos
Oct 17, 2008 | 7:39 PM

I like Athena's response. As a Christian. Christians have the Bible as their benchmark of accountability. That is the standard. That is the goal. It's not really a person, although God is a person, but when we allow people to be the TOP DOG, corruption follows, everytime. The leader needs to have parameters, and if there are none, then there is chaos.

Gorilla read my blog
Oct 18, 2008 | 1:28 PM

The world is not black and white. Its all gray.
You must always be aware of the extremes.

Once anyone has mastered themselves(attained enlightenment through the grace of Christ), petty bickering, childish possession, and aggro-dominance is shed.
All that is left is wisdom.
Wisdom to make the correct decision, thus producing less failure and inconsistency.

"Both dictators throughout history and power brokers of communist regimes (who are philosophical atheists) do not want to answer to anyone for their actions."
If you believe in GOD, you believe his judgment, his wrath and his fury.
We hold the divine power of forgiveness on this plane, thats it. Man answers to no one but himself. Put down your pitchfork.

didaskalos read my blog
Oct 18, 2008 | 8:01 PM

"The world is not black and white. Its all gray." That is a pretty definitative (black and white) statement. :)

I prefer a velvet hammer to a pitch fork anyway.

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didaskalos

A "teacher" must first be a learner. Truth matters! The truth will set you free. I've been married for 20+ years and have four great kids. As an adult, I've lived for nine years in West Africa and Europe. I consider myself to be a southern gentleman.

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