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by candyaquino from Orlando

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I can still remember all these things:

I grew up in a household where coffee, milk and sugar were part 
of a balanced breakfast. 
 
I grew up in a household where my ADD and ADHD was treated with 
'en cuanto te coja te voy a dar una paliza' instead of Ritalin.* 
 
I grew up in a household where all it took was just ONE look. 
 
I grew up in a household where we loved white rice and fried eggs. 
 
I grew up in a household where lentil soup was considered 'comida de preso' 
 
I grew up in a household where Spanish was my primary language. 
 
I grew up in a household where Spanish was my only language... 
 
I grew up in household where I had to go to my school open house 
to translate for my parents. 
 
I grew up in a household where my brother and I shared a room 
until I was fifteen. 
 
I grew up in a household where music or TV was never played on Good Friday. 
 
I grew up in a household where we ate 'bacalao' on Good Friday 
because all other fish was too expensive. 
 
I grew up in household where we ate 'lechon' at Thanksgiving. 
 
I grew up in a household where we ate 'lechon' at Nochebuena. 
 
I grew up in a household where we ate 'lechon' at birthday parties. 
Come to think of it, I grew up in a household where we ate 'lechon' 
at every social function. 
 
I grew up in a household where Tilo and Manzanilla were the remedies 
to end all ailments. 
 
I grew up in a household where I could have cafe con leche for breakfast 
but I was too young for a buchito de cafe. 
 
I grew up in a household where we watched la novela while we were 
having dinner. 
 
I grew up in a household where I was not allowed to sleepover at anybody's >house but they could all come over to our house. 
 
I grew up i n a household where we didn't need El Cable because 
we only watched El Canal 23. 
 
I grew up in a household where the carpool was 'el ride', 'el carrito' was 
the lunchman y 'la lonchera' was the lunch box. 
 
I grew up in a household where 'la carne' was from 'la carniceria' and 
the groceries were from 'la bodega'. 
 
I grew up in a household where meat and potatoes were literally 
'carne con papas.' 
 
I grew up in a household where oxtail stew had the colorful name of 
'rabo encendido' or a fiery tail. 
 
I grew up in a household where people were either 'blanco, Negro, indio o >chino.' 
 
I grew up in a household where we drank Bustelo because El Pico was 
for Puerto Ricans. 
 
I grew up in a household where we ate 'frijoles negros y colorados ', 
many times burned to a crisp by and exploding in la 'olla de Presion'! 
 
I grew up in a household where the oven was used exclusively to store 
'Las cazuelas' and the oil. 
 
I grew up in a household where 'Los perros' was the dog track, 'Las >Maquinitas' were slot machines and 'el juego' was anything related to >Gambling. 
 
I grew up in a household ran by Cubans. 
 
I survived in that household ran by Cubans. 
 
And I'm proud of it!!! 
 
Darn, it's great to be CUBAN IN AMERICA! 

THANK YOU MOM AND DAD FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT ME FOR I WILL NEVER FORGET! YOUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH ME DAY IN AND DAY OUT......SPECIALLY THE ONE MOM WHERE YOU SAID TO TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT AND TO MAKE AS MANY FRIENDS AS I COULD THOUGH SOME PEOPLE ARE RUDE IN NATURE..THIS IS AMERICA.......THE LAND OF DREAMS AND SOMETIMES MAKE BELIEF..............I MISS YOU SO MUCH WITH TEARS IN MY EYES...........I SEND YOU LOTS OF LOVE AND KISSES BECAUSE I KNOW YOU GUYS ARE WITH ME.............................XXXXXX0 AND THANK YOU GOD FOR KEEPING ME SAFE AND MY FAMILY.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL FOX35 EMPLOYEES AND BLOGGERS  MAY YOU ALL ENJOY THIS THANKSGIVING WITH YOUR LOVE ONES. REMEMBER LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE ON PETINESS. LIVE TODAY FOR WE MAY NOT KNOW WHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING..................................HAPPY TURKEY DAY!
 
 

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ROGER459 read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 11:32 AM

Dear Candy,

Your QUOTE: I grew up in a household where Spanish was my primary language.

I grew up in a household where Spanish was my only language...

WHAT can I say? Here in America, where "AMERICAN ENGLISH" is our Native Tongue, and Where ALL ARE EXPTECTED to communicate in that Language!

When I visit certain areas of this country, I FIND THE "REFUSAL" of those living here to Communicate in My American Language!

YET, when I visit Any Other Foreign COUNTRY, I am expected to SPEAK THEIR LANGUAGE???

I cannot be thankful... for those THAT... "REFUSE"... TO LEAN & SPEAK... 'American English!'

They TAKE ALL THE GOOD... WE HAVE HERE.... and "Refuese"... to Speak... "AMERICAN???"

Thanks, Roger459.

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 11:44 AM

Hey Roger......ROGER THAT......I hear you loud and clear. Just to clarify my mother, was already in her late 50's or early 60's don't remember too well so she never really learned English..BUT WE DID..AND I AM VERY VERY PROUD...I only excuse people like my mother that come here at a late age......she lived a very difficult time in Cuba and through Castro, my Father, however WAS AMAZING...he learned alright and what he didn't he invented....WE WERE TAUGHT WELL. like I was saying I only excuse THE ELDERS......EVERYONE LIVING IN AMERICA.......NEEDS TO SPEAK ENGLISH AND I REALLY THINK IT'S A DIS-SERVICE TO AMERICA .....that citizenships are giving IN SPANISH........WTF........is wrong with the people in government..always appeasing IMMIGRANTS...........SO I HEAR YOU......but that doesn't take away my private HOME LIFE WHICH I ENDURED AND MISSED SO MUCH............

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 12:02 PM

I also remember I was about 6 or 7 and I only remember back in the day, one year of learning English AND THAT WAS IT............for you NOT THIS BS.....THEY HAVE KNOW WHERE THEY PUT THESE KIDS IN EASOL FOR FREAKING LIFE......AND THEY ARE NOT EVEN LEARNING THE LANGUAGE GREAT EDUCATORS WE HAVE TODAY......EH........while the OCPS gets 5 to 10 grand A HEAD for pupils place in EAsol I THINK IT DEPLORABLE THAT THESE KIDS COMING INTO THE STATES ARE NOT LEARNING ENGLISH.......there is no excuse for that

ROGER459 read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 12:07 PM

Hey Candy,

Thank you for your cordial reply!

I was in 'Field Service'... for 5-Years and traveled Internationally.

Before Each trip Overseas, I went to the LIBRARY and checked out a LANGUAGE series for the country I was to visit!

I was able to communicate 'some' in their Native Tongue. They MOSTLY ALL SPOKE ENGLISH, and were Happy to Pracitce On ME!

Their APPRECIATION for me, learning some of their Language, was reward enought for ME!

Thanks, Roger459.

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 12:57 PM

if you read my crazy blogs and all the insults I have gotten for fighting my own people AS TO WHY THEY REFUSE TO LEARN ENGLISH......YOU WILL SEE THAT THOUGH I ENJOY MY NATIVE FOODS, I GREATLY MISS MY MOMMA AND POPPA........THEY TAUGHT ME WELL......AND I AM IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA AND FOREVER WILL BE GREATFUL AND ENGLISH SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE NATIVE LANGUAGE OF AMERICA........I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY NOW......SO MANY CONFUSION...you are in America ENGLISH DAM IT!!!! P.S. sad my children except for my oldest who is 28, don't speak Spanish NOR DO I SPEAK SPANISH AT HOME....sometimes when I am angry and don't want the kiddies to understand...lol

ROGER459 read my blog view my photos
Nov 18, 2008 | 2:15 PM

Hey Candy!

There are ONLY A Few Great MINDS Left... so enjoy yours and I will enjoy mine!

The rest of 'them'... we leave to their Own Devices!

Thanks and have a great week! Roger459.

Cromagnonwoman read my blog view my photos
Nov 19, 2008 | 8:09 AM

I love my Cuban heritage. I love my American heritage more. Gracious.

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Nov 19, 2008 | 9:49 AM

THANKS Roger and YOU GO..CROMAGNONWOMAN...I love a latino/latina WITH AN ATTITUDE AND INTELLEGENCE TO RECOGNIZED THAT WE ARE IN "AMERICA"..not little Havana and/or Portugal or whatever EVERY DARN SPANISH HERITAGES..........still....some people refused TO LEARN ENGLISH and that's when I get Irate specially YOUNGENS.......and middle ages.....COMMON NOW....that's just pure LAZINESS AND DISRESPECTFUL TO THIS GREAT PLACE CALL A M E R I C A!!!

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candyaquino

I am a legal Assistant/Paralegal of 23+ years, Notary, Beautician, Nutritionist.Originally came from Cuba in 1967 have live the American Dream. Have witness the riotings and seen the changed in economy, politics and education. Happily married to my now, retired husband. After he served in vietnam later became a Detective for the Arson Squad then became a Firefighter. We are very proud of him and Thank God he made out of the Fire Department alive. We both have won awards, his was The Valor Award for saving lives and I got a Proclamation from the City of Newark for serving as security and community activist. Orlando is now our home.My ultimate goal is to serve the community and run for office some day. I presently have a seat in the Board of Directors for our HOA. We have five wonderful children two girls and three boys and three beautiful grandsons. I Thank God for all that my parents instilled me have been rubbing off on them so far. Happy to be a member of WOFL's Blog and look forward to meeting and communicating with WOFL's viewers.

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