Being and becoming handicap limits people to certain things that others have advantages over! There are struggling aspects for the handicap that others seem to overlook and ignore! I have to admit that I found this out the hard way but also found that there are very few that did show compassion and care while others would be annoyed and bothered!
Although there has been better means for the handicap today, there are still obstacles, struggles, and limitations that the handicap must endure! For example: I broke my foot and became handicapped, limiting me to certain things from what I have become a custom to with my everyday way of life! Riding my motorcycle, better performance with my business for my customers, cooking, cleaning, providing better for my family, getting around, going up and down stairs, and SHOPPING!
Having to shop at the grocery store was in fact a challenge! I have never had the need to use one of those motorized shopping carts to do my shopping (which started out to be fun riding by the way), but I had too! I shop at Wal-Mart for the savings and low prices, but I am use to filling up my cart to the max to lessen the trips because I really hate to shop but it has to be done! Those motorized shopping carts are limited to what you can fit, no problem, I would just cut back to the most important needs. I also figured out that I should bring someone with me to push the bigger cart if need be, sometimes that could be a problem.
Anyway, as I was driving around gathering what I really needed, I found myself in awkward situations! I couldn’t reach some of the products, no one around to help; I had to painfully try my best to get it off the shelf. I even struggled getting down some of the isles that were crowded with other shoppers who became annoyed with ME as I would have to sit there until I had room to get through or around! There were people who would even hit you with their carts getting around you without saying sorry! Out of the whole store there were TWO people that actually helped me with a few difficulties. Everyone else showed annoyed disrespect like I was a nuisance to them! I got first hand of what it can be being handicapped and the way others will in fact treat you!
One thing that was brought to my attention by the son of another elderly man also in a motorized cart was as I was passing by them he stopped me and asked if my horn worked on my diving cart, (I didn’t even know I had one), he pointed it out to me and tried it, sure enough it didn’t work, nor did it work on his father’s cart! My first thought was why, then I figured well maybe it was disconnected because it would be annoying for others who shop or complaints made by those others who didn’t like that horn being blown at them as they blocked the right-a-way for some stupid reason, (talking on the phone, chatting it up with someone else they ran into, leaving their cart in the middle of the isle and walk away), who really knows but it did place question within my mind over that one!
I must say though that it was the most difficult time I have ever had shopping! It has also been a complete struggle keeping up with my own business and my regular household duties as well! I have never felt so helpless, never felt so much of being such an annoying nuisance, never felt so limited, never felt so much worthlessness until now.
What I can do and say is this; the next time you ever run across someone who is handicapped and limited, trying to do things by themselves, try and show compassion and respect for the handicap, don’t treat them like an annoying nuisance! Show some humanity and give support to those who need it! Treat the handicap & others as you would expect and want to be treated yourself! Show more support to the handicap!
GET-R-DONE
Mater
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