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by James_Nachios from Deltona Fl

Last Post 154 days, 7 hours Ago


Dude, so far, I feel sorry for this kid. They have been talking about kids just pushing you to "Suicide or turning it into more violence like the west virginia tech murders". Now.

What I dont get is that why would the principal ignore them?

They have talked about turning  the negative words to positive and ignoring it.

 

Now Ever since fourth grade I have been picked on everyday. By my looks, by not being an "Athelete" but I could still beat them on the mile. Now there was a kid who commited suicide because he was picked on so much. He told a bully after befriending with him that he told the bully he was gay/bi. Not he tried to make sure to kill that rumor by getting a cool girlfriend on the internet via. Myspace.com. Well she pretended to like him and everytime they had private sexual chats she would copy it and paste it on the web showing her friends and 3 weeks later, he found out and killed himself.

 

How I talked about that I was picked on since 4th grade, I know it will not stop. I am dependant in myself. I know I can get through, I dont even get a clue about killing myself. I make sure that my life is never affected by words and rumors by people.

Now, they mentioned that the kid being interviewed theres principal told the mom "Its just them growing up, he needs to be a man" It just made me feel so furious. That principal should get fired!

This makes me horrified.

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80sMetalHead read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 11:46 AM

That principal should lose his job for saying that. My kids are all little right now but when they get a little bigger, I want hubby to teach them to fight. Before anyone starts spazzing, it's not so they can pick fights or bully others. It's so that they can defend themselves IF needed.
James, you are wise beyond your years.

pattiep read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 12:28 PM

Hey
James, long time no see...
I agree with you 100%..
That Principal had no right. Sure somethings are just a part of growing up, but this it absolutely not. This is a sensitive matter that needs to be dealt with by professional. It's obvious this guy is not.

ADeltonian read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 6:05 PM

Why wont anyone stand up to these bullies and end this school violence?

J_Darrowin read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 6:35 PM

That principal is pretty out of touch with today's kids, I think. I guess he's never heard of what happens to some kids when they get pushed too far.

James, all you have to do, is just hang in there, and make it past high school. That's it. I know it's sounds over-simplistic, but it's the truth. Once you graduate and move on, you'll no longer be the "odd one", for lack of a better word (not that I'm implying that you are). If you're anything like those other kids who were bullied or ridiculed through high school, you'll most likely be buying and selling people like those "jocks" that are living their glory years in school now. You'll become a sucess, maybe even a millionare! The jocks and other "popular" kids, however, will end up doing some low wage job, crying over their lost youth. Well, that's just how I see it, anyway.

Like I said, hang in there!

CUPIDSMOMMY read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 6:56 PM

you are very wise james, you always seem to have such great responses and are in touch with society and whats happeing in the world today, aint no other kids got a dang thing on you... like j-darrowin says, one day you will be out of school and away from all those who tease. you are strong to not let the comments or insults get to you. in the end , only you and your thoughts matter. you are a goog guy james!!!!

J_Darrowin read my blog view my photos
Aug 14, 2007 | 7:33 PM

Uh, just don't be like me and spell "success" wrong.

DaytonaFrank read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2007 | 2:09 AM

James, it happened to me too. And even though I enrolled my daughter in the best school I could find, it happened to her too.
Of course, it was one of the kids who were bussed there from a, lets say, worse neighborhood.

DaytonaFrank read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2007 | 2:21 AM

Zero tolerance for everything else. Why not this?
Everything is wrong that you could possibly do, but bullying is still ignored, which has caused how many slaughters, and how many future slaughters.
The very heart of most disciplinary disputes in any given school, is ignored!
This principal does NOT deserve that title, and has no idea of how to run a peaceful educational facility.
He should be fired.

James_Nachios read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2007 | 3:48 AM

Oh and I hear that the suspension program is being cancelled this year
What is up with that
Are they phychotic!
My highschool that I'm going to HAS VOILENCE EVERYDAY!

Jesus, They need to do something over there.

James_Nachios read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2007 | 3:52 AM

Thanks for the compliments as well.
I ignore as much as I can.
I do make sure that Nothing gets to my head.
But it's other kids.

Like one of you said
"Why cant they stand up to them bullies"

Dont want to make this offensive.
But A bullies thought and strategy [Sorry if misspelt] is too lower the other kids strength and turn it into weakness.

On my last year of middle school [Last year] I saw in gym 5 kids picking on another, he struck back and they just beat him down.

Maybe its fear.
Who knows?
I just dis-Like the fact that I have to see kids lives being smashed.

James_Nachios read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2007 | 3:53 AM

Oh daytonafrank

I was going to go to a private school for I can make my...idk school life better. like Make myself look good for a great college. And freaking I get a message from a friend on myspace who used to go there.

He says its almost as bad as highschools!

CharChar8907 read my blog view my photos
Oct 18, 2007 | 6:33 AM

I agree with you & I know how it is. I was pushed so far, but I just left School instead. The Schools aren't doing enough to stop the Bullying. It's just bullcrap & I hate it. I've always wanted to be someone who goes to Schools & just stop the Bullies for hurting kids. It's screwed up. It's not just High School. It's also Middle School & Some Elementry Schools too which is Sad. Something should be done about it since the principals won't do anything!!

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Hey Babeh =], It's James! I'm back >:]. Right now I am currently residing in Deltona, Florida. The age is 15, and I speak My Mind. I have a Layout site on Myspace, and a myspace of my own. I am a pretty Great friend, But I am also mean when you test me :]. I am Gay, and Proud to be one. Have a problem with that? Good, cause I'm not changing my sexuality for your decision =]. I like to give my opinion A lot so...Enjoy :]

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