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A bit different from fiscal battered abuse which leaves marks throughout the body and visible to the human eye and can heal but leave a mark in memory, the mental cruelty of verbal abuse can last a life time!  Both causes scare within a persons mind!  A person will change from what they once where and even possibly who they once were meant to be.  But when it comes to your marital best friend to who you have committed your life too, years of abuse either way affects a person and changes within them grow into someone your not!  Not only is this so by marital stand point but also, parents, business co-worker, a family member, best friends, and even just by simple words through blogs or media!

The neglects of promises once made seems to be forgotten in time and the things we use to love the most slowly moves from out of the heart you once carried dear to you.  You become torn away and become a stranger even to your own self.  Mental break downs occur with those who finally gives up the fight back to their salvation and faith within ones self…it is destroyed and the person you once were will never live again but the other person you became is who you are now!

There are some has the fight within them and could possibly succeed where others have failed and grow stronger from all they have learn from experience.  Mind over matter can be the right path to walk if you show strength over the boundaries you must hurtle yourself through.  You show to be stronger to overcome the daily abuses that life and others try to control as to make you their slave.  It’s up to you which path you so choose and its up to you to keep the control of your own destiny and self reliance.

There are sometimes sacrifices though and ones in which you may not expect to happen when you loose yourself with the pain of struggle to figure out how to overcome it.  Loved ones may not understand what you are going through but they stand beside you no matter and worry as you would them.  The quest for ones self can place anxiety on others with confusion and may put a barrier to being more open and honest that you do not wish to stress them over but somehow it must come out!  At times a complete stranger can be that relief from one who cares enough to listen, just listen!  A complete understanding of the issues becomes a plus when another can relate but can also give either good or bad advice in which is freely offered.  So once again you may come across yet another hurtles of choice.

After so many years of passing day after day let downs, hurtful statements, and put downs…one can’t help but even question their own self.  You want to leave it all behind but yet another hurtle prevents you from doing so.  You find yourself with no other choice but to try and find that way out but optical continue to get in the way making it impossible to be on your own and regain what you once had within yourself.  No matter how many times you come so close to accomplishment the wall builds back up for you to be able to once and for all get through.  No matter how strong you may be, even time can give an affect to your mental stability!

What say YOU?

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.  Make that colorful rainbow out of your life!

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Even prayers can be judged with a yes or a no by the big man himself!

I asked God to take away my habit…God said, No.  It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole…God said, No.  His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience…God said, No.  Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.

I asked God to give me happiness…God said, No.  I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain…God said, No.  Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow…God said, No.  You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life…God said, No.  I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.

I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me…God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.

Are your prayers answered in the manner of which you have spoken and asked for or have they gone left unanswered?  If you have had any of your prayers answered, please share it with us?

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