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I GOT YOUR BOOP-BOOP-A-DOOP BABY!

by BornToBeWild from The Open Road

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You never know what lies ahead for tomorrow but when you work everyday so hard to establish a settled home life, you never really think things can and will turn around for the worst to happen!!!  Well it has and it did!!!

Since the major increases of oil, with everything else following afterwards, my business has taken a plunge!  Now after working for the same company for many, many years, my husband got the boot (layed off), now both of us out of work.  With no work around to be had for either of us and we can no longer pay our bills or mortgage, we have no other choice but to take a major loss and sell everything including our home we love so much!  It has forced us to give up everything we have worked for and then some!  The only choice we have now is to move on, (in a tent most likely) and make the best of what will be left somehow!

The reason I must say goodbye is not because I want too but because I have too!  I will be very busy trying to get things sold, fighting with the creditors and lenders, and one of the cut corners will be our phone line to where I will no longer be able to be here with you bloggers.  "Gotta do whatcha ya gotta do!"  I don't like it but reality isn't something you can push aside for later!  As they have been saying...cuts must be made!  It hurts, it bites, and I'm not looking forward to any ot it, trust me!  And just when things got back to the good ole blogging days, would'n you know it!

My main focus now is to try and save our credit record before it's too late {somehow}, I must salvage something to help get back into the swing of things in the future, don't you know!  Life is a challenge each and every day!  Never take things for granted because one day you may find it no longer there!  We have now become the victims of parvati & economic crisis!  "sigh"  When it rains...it can really poor!

I have fully enjoyed sharing my posts and comments with everyone here at FOX and I hope some day I will be able to return, (once I find the light again).  And thank you FOX for giving me this opportunity and privilege to blog here!I wish everyone here a blessed tomorrow as you live for today!!!  Best wishes, sweetest dreams, best of luck, and may your tomorrows always be fulfilled!

BOOP-BOOP-A-DOOP

XX-OO

Di

{THE BOOPSTER "BornToBeWild" BLOGGING OFF or ON till this blog runs out of time}  FareWell My Friends, it has been a privilege!!!

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pattiep read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2008 | 12:33 PM

Oh Di I am so sorry. I've been hearing many friends and neighbors of mine all trying to keep things together and can no longer survive. I hope we can hang in there long enough for things to pick up again.
Please know that you are going to be very missed here, but whenever you can get to the library drop us a line and let us all know how you are doing.
This just breaks my heart and if there is anything I can do for you please let me know. You can send me email through NEyes blog

BornToBeWild read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2008 | 4:56 PM

Thanks PattieP!!!

One thing I must share with everyone is something I just found out today with my mortgage holder and all it took was a phone call expressing our concerns. They told me that we can apply what is called a moderation of contract. It's a 90 day process in which you are oblicated to still pay your regular monthly payments but once everything is processed then they lower your monthly payments to a more affordable payment plan and lower the interest rate for you which can only be a temporary fix set for 3 to 5 years and then it goes back to the original contracted payments. I didn't know that until I called them to see if there were any kind of options they had to offer that may help in our situation. I know there are alot of other people that doesn't know this I'm sure!

AUGUSTALLEN28 read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2008 | 7:31 PM

Di, I'm sorry that you have to go through this stage in your life,but think of it only as a stage and not a destination.I pray that God will bless you with enough resources to help stabilize you and your family through out this tough time. You will be missed,Hope to see you back on track soon. :)

northton read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2008 | 8:33 PM

Good for you Di. Perhaps you can keep your home after all. I hope you get back here soon.

toddt read my blog
Aug 15, 2008 | 8:52 PM

I too wish you the best. I wished I had a stack of cash and could help good people like yourself but my fear is that I am not too far behind you and I know a lot of people in the same boat.

Best wishes to you and yours!

pattiep read my blog view my photos
Aug 15, 2008 | 9:31 PM

Thank you for the info Di, I'm sure it will help others in the same situation. I know it makes you feel a lot better knowing you have this option. It will work out, you'll see.
Love the picture of the real you.

BornToBeWild read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2008 | 5:38 AM

I'm hoping that FOX keeps me active just in case I am able to work something out with our phone line and internet connections, this may take a while to accomplish, maybe even months before I can get back here! It's going to be a long tough road ahead and I plan to fight it every step of the way too! I was tiggled to death to know that my mortgage holder is willing to work with us at least and hope that part will work out. MAN, how I'm going to miss being here in the mean time!!!!!!!!

rottweiler7575 read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2008 | 11:36 AM

Di it has been Great Blogging with you, Please remember everything happens for a reason and 9 out 10 times it is for the BEST. Things will work out for you & your Husband, GODS SPEED, Till we BLOG AGAIN......

Gorilla read my blog
Aug 16, 2008 | 7:48 PM

Best of luck for your future, the privilege was ours.

DaytonaFrank read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2008 | 8:07 PM

You will be missed Boopster. Have faith. I believe everything will work out for the better.

TAllen read my blog view my photos
Aug 16, 2008 | 8:08 PM

Di I refuse to say good bye to ya cause I know you will be back again. So...until then keep a smile on your face, a twinkle in your eye and look for that silver lining. I will be waiting for your return. (hugs)

BornToBeWild read my blog view my photos
Aug 17, 2008 | 10:03 AM

OHHHH...I need a tissue!

J_Darrowin read my blog view my photos
Aug 17, 2008 | 10:03 AM

Like Tallen, I also won't say goodbye, because I have complete confidence that you'll pull out of this, Boopster. We may not see you around for a awhile, but you'll be back, and we'll be right here to welcome you. We'll be watching for you here, and Neye's blog. :)

RNC08 read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 9:04 AM

Sorry I have not been around , hope you can work things out....you do know that if you need anything just ask , also I do have an open wi-fi over here you can barrow one of my rigs any time or even just bring your laptop and pop in from the front yard (it will work ad-hock or infrastructure , in case I am not around )

DeborahLakeHelen read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 8:03 PM

Di, I too, refuse to say "Goodbye" to you, because I know our paths will cross again, someday! I wish I could cross my arms, blink my eyes, and shake my ponytail, and make it all better for you, like "I Dream Of Jeannie" used to do! If I had a fairy godmother, I'd send her to you, make her wave her magic wand, and ta-dah, everything would be super-duper again, for you. All I can do is pray, really, really hard for you. God is bigger, better and stronger than anything any human ever dreamed up, and I know He'll be taking care of you! Remember:
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares The LORD..."plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

Native_Floridian read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 1:07 PM

BTBW, if you're old enough (not sure of the age or if there is one), look into a REVERSE MORTGAGE through HUD, my mother-in-law did this and she is allowed to live and stay in her home MORTGAGE FREE until she dies. She is saving herself a whopping $780 month since she no longer needs to worry about a mortgage on her home.

Good Luck dear, we're all going to miss you and your blogging.

BTW: I KNOW what you mean about employment, I'm still trying to locate work myself and have been since mid-March 2008.

oldvamp read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 3:11 PM

Di, I was going to tell you about the modification of your mortgage, but evidently you already know of it. I too am in nearly the same situation and talked to the bank (Bank of America) and as of today, I am in that process. My wife is working two jobs and I am working part time as a school crossing guard but we were forced into this situation not of our own accord. Long story there and I don't want to bore you with what happened. I will also say a prayer or two for you and yours. Keep the faith and keep your head up as high as possible. I wish you the best and truly hope it all works out for you.

Oryguncb read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 10:49 PM

Di, I hate to see you go, I cant make much sense from most on here, although our opinions on some things may differ, you were one of the few that gave an informed and smart reply, I will send an invite to your myspace...(look for the nekkid cowboy) LOL...Let me know if I can help in any way.

pimplebutt read my blog
Aug 19, 2008 | 10:49 PM

you brought it all on yourself, it's your own fault

Captain_Jim read my blog view my photos
Aug 20, 2008 | 7:49 AM

Thanks for answering a question I've always had pimplebutt. Now I know that 1 out of 18 people on most blogs is an idiot.

Di, I wish you the best. This is awful news. I hope you guys are able to pull it together fast. By the way, Craigslist is a great place to sell things fast when you need cash. And it's free!

suzz read my blog
Aug 20, 2008 | 10:20 AM

Di, i know how you feel I told my husband whom is know down to 4 days a week and hoping to have a job next week if this keeps up we to will be cutting everything but just the basics.Best of luck to you and keep your chin up as much as possible.

BornToBeWild read my blog view my photos
Aug 22, 2008 | 6:01 PM

pimplebutt...here's a suggestion...take more baths because you stink, soap and water is our friend and keeps us cleaner from strong BO! So scrub scrub scrub your body along with your butt and mouth and just maybe your pimplebutt problem will go away!

Georgia-Man read my blog
Aug 23, 2008 | 1:52 PM

pimplebutt you need to change your name to pimplebrain. I am a man of God but if I could see your face I would hit you so HARD you would never need a rear view mirror again.
Di I have been of the air myself for awhile and have not talked to you lately. So I know how you feel. Just know that alot of people are Praying for you. Keep your chin up girl and remember who holds your Blessings in His hands. God Bless you.
Michael

pLOp25 read my blog
Aug 23, 2008 | 8:53 PM

Pimplebutt, remember, if something happens to your Daddy or Mommy, you will be out on the street too. I'll show you the symphathy you deserve. Until then I'd like to kick a few Pimples.

Meb452m read my blog
Aug 23, 2008 | 9:19 PM

Hey Di ! Best wishes and I hope everything takes a change for the better.

Heidi_Hatch read my blog view my photos
Aug 25, 2008 | 4:08 AM

Sorry to hear the bad news.
Good Luck

Goofy1966 read my blog
Aug 28, 2008 | 7:08 AM

I don't know you Di, but I'm so sorry for what you're going through!! Just when you think your life is hard, you meet someone whose life is even harder. I hope that things improve for you quickly and that you can keep your house!! God bless you and keep you in his care!! And as for Pimplebutt, what can you expect from someone who picks that for a screen name?! Don't you have any compassion for other people?! You better hope you never get knocked off that pedestal you've got yourself on!!

davidpatrick344 read my blog view my photos
Sep 4, 2008 | 7:17 PM

check with the phone company you may be able to get phone service for 8.95 a month and then theres a couple of internet services like people pc thats free you just have to put up with the adds and its dial up

BornToBeWild read my blog view my photos
Sep 6, 2008 | 12:45 AM

Fantastic...thanks David, I will do just that!!!

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